Growing up, all I wanted was to marry a godly man and raise a family. But before that dream came true, I had to walk through heartbreak, disappointment, and messy dating experiences I never expected. I jumped into relationships without preparation or guidance, chasing what I thought would lead to my happily-ever-after.

Instead, it led to depression, anxiety, and cycles I struggled to break free from.

One relationship in particular had me stuck in a toxic pattern of breaking up, getting back together, and repeating the same mistakes. Even when I tried to leave and 'focus on God', I would slip into going back to either that relationship or others like it. It seemed like no matter how hard I tried, I always ended up back in the same place - crossing boundaries, losing myself, and carrying shame I didn’t know how to move past.

There came a low point when I had exhausted every effort to control my love life. I felt disqualified from the kind of relationship I had always prayed for, even disqualified from a close relationship with God. That’s when someone I trusted said words I’ll never forget:

“You are not too far gone.”

That moment changed everything. I realized God wasn’t finished with me. He wasn’t ashamed of me. He was meeting me right in the middle of my mess.

With His help, I finally walked away from that relationship and began letting Him heal my identity, redefine love through His Word, and free me from the emotional and spiritual baggage I had been carrying.

For years, I thought the right relationship would fix everything. But looking back I can see now: I wasn’t ready for the kind of love I was praying for. I needed to become the kind of woman who could actually receive and nurture that love.

It took time, but God in his goodness transformed me. He gave me the clarity, purpose, and healing I desperately needed. And in His grace, He not only restored me, but eventually He restored the man and the relationship I had released to Him. Today, we’re married with two precious little girls. Our marriage isn’t perfect, but it’s Christ-centered - and the very same skills I lean on today as a wife were born in that season of heartbreak, surrender, and godly community.

Over the years, as I shared my story, I discovered I wasn’t alone. So many women wrestle with the same cycles, heartbreaks, and questions I once carried.

That’s why I started this space. My mission isn’t just to help women “date better”, it’s to help you heal from your past, break free from regret, and prepare your heart for the future God has for you. Because God is not done with you. He is still writing your story.

If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start walking in clarity, confidence, and Christ-centered hope for your future, you’re in the right place. Let’s do this together.